afraid of the future

As i now face the beginning of a new challenge, i am also reaching a point in my life that i have to make choices and take decisions related to my future... what to do with it? what to do after college? take a master's degree? start searching for a job? jump to the commitments and responsabilities of an independent life? am i taking the right decisions? what if this isn't what i really want?

This apprehension that i am facing now, i have already experienced before and i'll be dealing with it later again, as many other people do. We all end up confronting our dilemmas several times at very different stages of our lives.

The doubts and insecurities that we face through those bad days, when we can't take those questions out of our heads, can ruin our present life, as it robs us energy and motivation for dealing with today.

It's important to have friends and people who you can count on, those who are there everytime you need them, that help us, listen and support our decisions. We have to realise that is fundamental to be there for them, as they were there for you once or will be when you need them in the future.

We also have persons around us that, at some point, pressure us to make a choice, telling us that is our obligation to make the 'right thing'. They don't do it with bad intentions, but that quick response that they demand from us, only disturb us even more...

But what we should think is that life hasn't even begun... we are only at the beginning!

So take your time, make your choices carefully and don't forget you always have more time and chances to try something else and face new opportunities.